**For the Ladies: 10 Surprising S*x Tips on How to Be the Best Lover Ever**

7 years ago

**For the Ladies: 10 Surprising S*x Tips on How to Be the Best Lover Ever**

Do you want to impress your lover and be the best love mate ever? Here are 10 interesting tips according to Dailystar, you can use to wow your partner.

The sexpert, who co-owns online sex toy retailer Jo Divine, shared her handy pointers on how to please him so you both have the best sex of your lives.

Open up a conversation about what makes you tick and what turns you on sexually. You may be pleasantly surprised about what your partner fantasises about.

Just talking about them with your partner can turn you on.

Men are attracted to the whole package so become more confident with your body. Loving the way you look will make you irresistible to your partner.

Being sexy isn’t always about being beautiful, but confident, so try wearing beautiful lingerie just for yourself.

Knowing you are wearing sexy knickers will give you a cheeky smile all day long.

Men love it when women make the first move, so initiate sex and take control. Take your time and set your own sexual pace to increase your own pleasure.

Making your partner wait will only fuel his sexual desire too. Tell him what you love him doing to you and how to make it feel even better. Ask him what he likes too.

Make sex more fun by having it in other places, either inside or outside.

Have a steamy shower, soaping each other with perfumed soaps or oils. Try having sex in the morning to keep you smiling all day or arrange to meet for lunch to have a midday quickie.

Invest in a full-length mirror to enjoy watching all the action.

Experiment with dressing up to boost your sexual arousal. If a man in uniform turns you on, get your partner to dress up.

Why not meet your lover at the door dressed in a tight skirt and blouse with stockings and killer heels to get his juices flowing?

Reading a few chapters from a short steamy erotic story will coax the first sparks of sexual desire in you and give you some ideas for your own sex life too.

Try writing down your own erotic thoughts, you never know, you could be the next E.L. James.

Being on top is extremely pleasurable for many women and will excite your partner too. Using a vibrating cock ring will stimulate both of you or try a small bullet vibrator against your cl!toris to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm.

Watching your man's facial expressions will let you know you're doing it right.

Regular sex toy use has been shown to increase sexual experience and satisfaction, rather than be a threat to a relationship and can lead to more satisfying orgasms.

Many men love to watch their partner use a sex toy on themselves and allows her to show him exactly how and where she likes to be touched.

If you are unsure about using a sex toy, why not try a cl!toral stimulator such or vibrating cock ring.

Many remote control couples' toys are great fun, allowing your man to be in control of your sexual pleasure at the touch of a button.

Blindfolding your man or being tied up and blindfolded yourself, using only your sense of smell, touch, taste and hearing can be intensely sexually arousing and rather wicked.

Making your man beg for your touch or tantalising them with feather-like caresses will make them throb with desire and unleash your inner dominatrix.

Using lubricant during sex can greatly increase both your sexual pleasure and that of your man and make sex last longer too.

Hormonal changes can affect the level of lubrication within the vagina so try organic lubricant to improve your sexual pleasure, heighten your sexual arousal and make sex feel more comfortable, pleasurable and simply better.