A man has begged relationship expert, Deidre what to do after persistently having the urge to see his wife have s*x with another man.



I have this fantasy about ­seeing my wife have sex with a well-endowed man. I don’t know whether to talk to her about it.

We are both 33. We have a great s*x life and I think I ­satisfy her but it does get a bit boring sometimes. I have an average-size penis from what I can tell from the guys I play footie with.

Should I suggest a threesome? Or might she like it so much she goes off her “average Joe” husband and wants him instead?