My boyfriend wants a baby despite my fibroid, what do I do?

Forum 7 years ago

My boyfriend wants a baby despite my fibroid, what do I do?

Hi,

I have been dating a guy for more than a year. He asked me to marry him few months into the relationship.

When I started discussing the wedding plans with him, he then told me I must get pregnant before marriage. I became confused but later decided to go with his plans since I loved him.

I got pregnant and then we started making wedding plans. Few weeks to the wedding I had a miscarriage and I discovered I had fibroid.

He called off the wedding saying he felt pressured. Few days later he asked that we try again within a specific period.

I’m really confused if I should have anything to do with him again but I still feel connected to him since he was my first. What should I do?