Help! I Found Out My Boyfriend Sleeps with Rich Women for Money...What Do I Do?

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Help! I Found Out My Boyfriend Sleeps with Rich Women for Money...What Do I Do?

I distinctly remember my friend telling me that he was a male model.

But now I’m finding out all sorts of unsavoury things about his career that are leaving me conflicted and upset.

As well as servicing rich, paying clients, he also makes X-rated films. Some of his material is extremely explicit. Yet he insists his work has nothing to do with his heart.

He swears that he’s devoted to me; has regular health checks and considers his profession an art form.

He’s even suggested we move in together because he craves a normal life away from the hotel rooms and the cameras. What do you think? Could a relationship with him ever work long-term?

I was utterly stunned the night I found out the truth about his career. He had taken me out for dinner and I was waffling on about other male models I admire – David Gandy etc.

With that he said: “You do know what else I do, don’t you?”

With that he revealed all. He didn’t attempt to hide anything. He simply confessed he has s*x on camera to pay the bills.

He considers himself an artist and it’s all a means to an end. Now I’m all over the place.

Can an individual really separate s*x work from normal life to that extent?

The problem is that I fancy him so much. He’s absolutely adorable and our s*x life is great (all that practice, I suppose). He manages to make everything sound so reasonable.

Is it wrong of me to condemn him when other people – terrorists and child abusers – do a lot worse things?