Relationship Talk. "My girlfriend wants marriage now.. I can't even pay my own bills"

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Relationship Talk. "My girlfriend wants marriage now.. I can't even pay my own bills"

I'm just a young lawyer practicing without a salary, I can't foot my bills and yet she wants to marry me, now I'm indebted to her and no matter how much I try to discourage her she keeps insisting



Hi Bukky,

My name is Sunday and I'm a greenwig.

I met this lady about 7 years back when I was about to serveand we started dating, the relationship was majorly a phone thing characterized by night calls.

We met during one break back home on arrangement and the memories stuck.

0ur next meeting in Abuja later that year dulled my feelings for her as I felt she was more serious on the phone.

After a long beef and plea, we met several times in Abuja after my service in 2010 but the relationship was no longer blossoming, I left Abuja for greener pastures and we didn't really see for almost 3 years.

The time apart was not without once in a while communication though, I met others and she did too but as fatewould have it, we met again when I was about going to Law school in 2013 and she came for a job interview.


We had a good time but she found out there was someone serious in my life but didn't care.I went to Law school and she got the job.


When I was about finishing she assisted me financially. She later continued her financial assistance throughout 2015 while pressing for marriage.

I've discovered her chat with one or two men despite the assistance and she's even introduced the man she had a relationship with but after confronting her I forget because of my own ways.

I'm just a young lawyer practicing without a salary. I can't foot my bills and yet she wants to marry me. Now am indebted to her and no matter how much I try to discourage her she keeps insisting.

I don't mind marrying her if I have the means but my plea for patience always falls on deaf ears. I still have other relationships I'm trying to break off in order to marry her.


What do I do and how do I handle the others who are just patient because I don't have the means?

Thanks.



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